♥ Is either Cammy or you ♥: ✖Third Participant VS Current Girlfriend ✖

As you all know , under many different circumstances , we can hear about : OMG , he got another GF !!! or WTH he already has such a great GF and he still flirting with another girl ~ !!! and obviously the person who get to know this LATEST news wil be like o.0 or >.< or even =.=!

Normally we called the " 2nd GF " as attachment OR third participant in love affair...
In a relationship , it's not only about love , it's about toleration , forgiving , and even willing to sacrifising and the most important thing of all is being patience ~~~

The main causes for a guy to find third participant are :

．•° Third participant is always full of creativity to make the guy happy....
(i.e : when the BF come back from work or study , normally GF will just treat him like they usually do : BUT for Third Participant , they will mayb put some efforts on the BF like : wear the colours that their BF like , cook the dishes they like, help them to carry their stuft, decorate the house according to the guy's taste...)
The solution is ---> Come on Girls , put some effort on your beloved guys .... you cant treat them the same for all 365 days !!! even if you face somthing the same for that long , your interest toward it will fade ...=) Make something fresh atleast ... why not try to wear the undergarments that your BF like then giving the opportunity to the other girls ? Sometime candle light dinner is aslo not a bad idea wo0tz ~~ These will really improve the relationship between you two because he will sense the sense of belonging ^^

．•° 4 minutes after wake up and 4 minutes after coming back from anything
(i.e : everyday after wake up, normally what a GF will do : Dear , later please help to pay the phone bills , buy me this and that ... all sorts of order she will give as she feels this is her obligation...At night after coming back from work when the BF just step in the door , GF will say : Dear please help me to throw the rubbish to outside , did you pay the bills , have you bought my thing and so on ; BUT for Third Participant , every morning once they wake up ~~~ they wont say a signle word but a morning kiss BF just back from work, they also remain silent when he come in and automaticaly carry his thing to his room , bring him a cup of water massaging him and ask : Dear , how are you today? I really hope i can help you out in your work so that you wont be so tired ...)
Hey , the 8 minutes that i mentioned is really important although they dont look so !
as a GF , you feel that is a obligation for you as a GF and since we are already together, so there are alot of thing we know in heart in soul then telling out =X but please understand that your BF is already very damn tired and you still want to nag him once he step in the house , he need your care even one sentence is enough !! so dont be stingy on ur words =) if you really want him to do something , think of some other way that you make him feel happy whilst doing it i.e use memo to write down and stick on his laptop like ~ "Dear , please help me to pay the bills if not i cant see you in the dark and i'll miss you =( " SEE simple thing like that he'll be glad and you can just order him to do you a favour ^^

．•° Negative criticism
(i.e : when your BF trying to tell you a new idea or may be he wanted to do something or buy something , this is what a GF and a Third Participant will react :
GF ~ Dear , are you sure you wanna do this? i dont think this can work out , did you ever think about the risk, you should not think babout it and BLA BLA BLA...
BUT
Third Participant ~ OMG dear,you've got such a brilliant idea , Awesomeee, perfect , i'll support you and BLA BLA BLA...)
The solution is ---> Ok , girls now you can open your EYES and see clearly the difference !! What he need is just a simple sentence like - Lets go and do it OR Sure , just do it !!! He needs your support and what you can give him is the courage to do it then giving negative opinion =) Imagine when he is driving back from work, on the way he kept thinking about telling you his idea and TADAAA in the end what he get is not your support ...its really a OUCH for him ...